Apr 26, 2018 2:02:06 GMT
Post by Nobody on Apr 26, 2018 2:02:06 GMT
Strength Keywords:
- Loyalty
- Dependable
- Caring
- Adaptable
- Responsive
Weakness Keywords:
- Moody
- Clingy
- Self-pitying
- Oversensitive
- Self-absorbed
Independence:
Rats is the clan that is packed full of contradictions so when it comes to independence, they possibly can or cannot be independent. On one side, they have the perseverance and drive to do what needs to be done, they are self-sufficient and do not need to depend on other people for the material and physical things in life. On the other hand, they depend on people for emotional support and encouragement.
One that is not fully self-actualized will need the constant support of others and will not be very independent but the one that is 'evolved' and has properly harnessed their emotional issues will be wildly successful as an independent human being. They crave attention and comfort from other people and they are happiest when they have a small, close knit group of friends or family.
Friendship:
Extremely loyal to those who appreciate and support them, they are the nurturer of the zodiac and will protect and cherish the person for a long time. One of the greatest things about Rats is their ability to make others feel good about themselves and loved. This is because instead of doing this for themselves, they project this onto other people. This is a positive cycle because in making others feel nurtured, wanted and loved, they in return feel good for making someone feel good.
Other people can lean on and depend them, they will listen to people's problems and help them however they will rarely express their own deep feelings to anyone. People who want to share deep emotional thoughts and opinions with a Rats might feel that the scales are tipped on one side and will rarely reveal it's true deep feelings. A friend is usually a lifelong devoted friend that can be trusted.
Business:
Once Rats resolved their emotional issues such as shyness and insecurity, the powerful character will shine though, there is practically nothing they can't do. They have incredible perseverance and will stand up for what they believe in.
With their strong intuition, sensitivity, powers of observation and intelligence, they will have great success in anything they undertake. They are excellent business people and investors because of their intuitive and psychic ability and their creative forward-thinking mind, they are able to predict future trends. They attract wealth very well and know where to invest.
Money and financial well being is very important to Rats and this can help their drive in business. They need financial security and if they allow themselves to properly focus their energy and do not allow their emotions to overtake them, they are more than capable of obtaining their financial goals and being incredibly successful business people.
Temperament:
They are complex, fragile, unpredictable, temperamental and need constant support and encouragement, more than any other clan to be needed. Even when all needs are satisfied, they can be irritable and cranky.
They have an uneasy, delicate temperament. Their contradictory nature gives their temperament the wild mood swings and possible temper tantrums. They are easily offended and will sulk and wallow in self-pity for a long time when they get hurt.
Deep Inside:
It is difficult for Rats to open up and have a close emotionally fulfilled relationship with someone because they are so closed off emotionally and physically to the world. This is driven by their fear of trust and have a difficult time trusting people. This causes built up anger and resentment inside, the contradictory nature really takes a toll on them and they can have a negative outlook on life, thinking that life is just too hard and miserable. This is unfortunate because when good experiences are to be had, they are skeptical of people and their surroundings and they experience tunnel vision due to their depressed outlook and they miss the nice things and happy experiences in life that make it worth living.
In addition to lack of trust for people, they are deeply sensitive and easily hurt, this is other reason why they have their defense shell in place, to avoid being hurt by others. Rats lives in the past. They hold past events close to them and often dwell on the past. They have to learn to let go and live in the present instead of spending their time being sick with nostalgia.
Rats has a lot of emotional issues to deal with but once they overcome this large hump of shyness and insecurity, there is practically nothing they can't do. With their strong intuition, sensitivity, powers of observation and intelligence, they will have great success in anything they undertake. Constantly feeling, feelings and emotions are hallmarks of this clan and this is the root of their problems, human beings are not as evolved in the emotional area and this is where they get the brunt of their problems.
They are the ones who have to cope with their strong feelings more so then any other clan . Once properly harnessed, there is nothing that this powerful clan cannot accomplish. Harmony is very important, it keeps them happy. Conflict of any kind causes great distress.
Deep inside, Rats is a very powerful clan , they have the ability to stand up for what they think is right and they have lots of perseverance and can be fine on their own provided they don't let their emotions get the better of them and have the stability they need. They are not fond of change but they have the ability to do what needs to be done, they are not pushovers or lazy people.
In a Nutshell:
Rodere is a mysterious clan , filled with contradictions. They want security and comfort yet seek new adventure. They are very helpful to others yet sometimes can be cranky and indifferent. Rats has a driving, forceful personality that can be easily hidden beneath a calm, and cool exterior.
The Rat is the Rodere's ruling animal and it suits them well, they can come out of their shell and fight but they can also hide in their shell of skitter away back into the depths of the ocean. They are very unpredictable. There is always something more than meets the eye, for they are always partially hidden behind the shell. They are a have a deep psyche and intuitive mind that is hidden from the world. They are deeply sensitive and easily hurt, this might be why they have their defense shell in place, to avoids being hurt by others.
They are nurturers, so they surround themselves with people, whom after a while can offend or hurt a Rats without even knowing they did so, therefore Rats protective shell keeps them safe from hurt. They are complex, fragile, unpredictable and temperamental and need constant support and encouragement, more than any other strains,
Rats needs to be needed. When they get the support they need, it has a tremendous amount to offer in return. When Rats gets offended, they tend to sulk instead of confronting the persons face to face. This needlessly prolongs the pain and suffering.
Being very possessive, not just with material possessions but with people as well. Always wanting to stay in touch with old friends and anyone who has ever been close to them, because it is easier to maintain a friendship then attempt to learn to trust a new person. It is easier this way for them emotionally. If you befriend them, you will stay friends for a long time.
The perfect mother, this is the clan that represents motherhood. They have unconditional love and caring more so then any other lycanthropy strain. Most of the psychics of the lycanthropic world are of the Rodere. They have an excellent memory and are very observant and can read people very well. They can usually tell of other people's intentions are good or not. Never try to dupe them, they can see your motives.
Rats has a lot of emotional issues to deal with but once they overcome this large hump of shyness and insecurity, there is practically nothing they can't do. With their strong intuition, sensitivity, powers of observation and intelligence, they will have great success in anything they undertake.
Love, Sex and Relationships
What it's like to date a Rats Woman:
She'll be a very sensual woman with deep emotions and passion brewing underneath the exterior. To reach these will require time, patience and tenderness. Do not expect to have her open up to you right away and jump into a relationship. She will not make the first move and will not be forward with you, you have to do all the work. Do not try to lead her on because she is very in-tune with a persons motivations and she will see right through you.
Trust is the single most important thing to her. If you ever betray her trust, you might as well move on. She needs love and security. Rats is the perfect woman for the man who loves to sweep a woman off her feet with romance. She is sensual, sweet and flirty and you two will engage in a gentle, flirtatious dance together while the relationship builds.
Once there is a solid, secure foundation, the richness of the relationship will emerge. She is old fashioned, feminine and sensual and patient, if you are the man who can give her what she wants, a relationship could be wholesome and rewarding and can last a lifetime.
What it's like to date a Rats Man:
He will not be direct with you. He will approach you cautiously and slowly. He will be very romantic and flirty and attempt to court you and win your heart with lavish gifts and attention. The reason he will never be direct with you is that he has a strong underlying fear of rejection. If you are interested in a Rats man, you will probably have to make the first move and ask him on a date.
He falls in love easily and will make you his whole world. Once you "belong to him", he will hold on to you and can become quite jealous and possessive. This is because he is worried he will lose you to another man and that would crush his spirit. He needs you to be loyal and faithful for he is the same, in a strong and close relationship, they are are the most loyal of the astrology clan s. They make excellent lovers for the tender woman who loves romance and being swept off her feet.
They are very affectionate and thrives on holding hands all the time, and constant physical contact as he absorbs the situation and experiences with his feelings. He is all about feeling. He might not show it however and might portray a calm and cool exterior but underneath, he feels deeply and intensely.
Can offten be easily offended, so do not jokingly make fun of them for they will take offense and get hurt, but once again, this will not be known to you. He will simply sulk on his own while he tries to figure out and dissect what you said. They are excellent male protectors and are like the knight in shining armor. If you are the kind of woman that likes being looked after and cared for, and loves affection and devotion, this romantic, sensual man is perfect for you.
How To Attract:
You must be direct. Let your feelings for them be known, this is the first step to initiating a relationship.
This way, they will not have to risk rejection, one of their biggest fears. If you are looking for a short fling, be straight with them. Do not lead them on to thinking there is long term commitment is there is none because you will hurt these emotionally delicate people.
Trust is the most important. Build trust with them and they will gradually get closer to you. Give them approval and compliments but be careful because they will easily sense when you are complimenting them just for the sake of it. Be sincere. Ask Rats for advice, share your problems (but don't burden them), they enjoy helping people and giving advice.
They like culture and lavish experiences. Take them to a play or museum and a fancy, upscale restaurant. Do not force Rats into a relationship or make them make a decision on the spot. They will shy away from you. Have patience, this is the key to attracting one. Be physical with them, they love genuine affection. They are very cautious and as time passes, they will slowly grow closer to you and you will have wonderful, fulfilling relationship.
Erogenous Zone:
The greatest erogenous zone is the chest and the breasts. Both women and men respond well to light sucking and kissing of the nipples. You must caress these areas delicately and softly. Never be rough. Stroke your fingers through the man's chest hair, lightly and gently this will ignite the fiery passion hidden behind the shell.
Sex:
Rats is very physical. Expect sex with to be a fully encompassing sexual experience. Lots of tender foreplay, massages afterwards, candles lit by the bedside, soft music in the background, delicious scented potpourri, everything to appeal to all senses. It will be delicate and passionate and an experience you won't soon forget.
Do not expect too much novelty and experimentation because Rats is a very conservative clan . Some people might be willing to try something new but they will never be the ones to suggest it, you have to or it will never happen. They might go along with your idea because they do enjoy new experiences. Make them always feel safe and secure when trying anything new and they might love it and incorporate it into your regular sex life.
